Wednesday, August 21, 2013

do you have a life of reasons or results?

the main reason that people feel like they are not able to achieve anough is because of the fact that they have more wants than they do results at any given point in their lives. think of your life as a to-do list. it annoys us all when we have more on the to-do side then we have checked off. and the thing is that somehow, there seems to be more and more added on to the list that needs to be done than oyu actually end up accomplishing. does it ever feel like 24 hours in the day are never enough to accomplish what you want to and go to bed satisfied? does it ever feel like there are things that people ask of you that you simply cannot make time for? this is a life of reasons. we as humans try to make a reason for everything. why do we not have time? we work too hard. why cant we spend time with family? we are too tired after a long day. why cant we seem to balance a social life? there is just not enough time in the day. the thing that you need to think about though is whether the reasons are more important to you and your belief system than sesults. DO YOU WANT TO BE LIVING ON REASONS OR RESULTS? a belief is the best explanation that you have to a given situation. there is a story that we make in our hrads when we try to connect all the things that we believe are happening to us so that we end up with a reason that is stopping us from achieveing our goals. for example, your stressed out and you so not have time to unwind with family, whats the reason we have, we are over worked. where did that belief come from? here is the fact, we do not have effective time management, so we are not able to finish the work that is assigned to us, ergo your boss tells you you are not performing up to par. this makes you think that you have to work harder and not smarter, and so you put in more hours( even though this is not what your boss is asking you for) and there is the story that you make in your head that leads to the reason that you cannot spend too much time with your family because you are overworked. breaking these beliefs is the key to having a life filled with results and not reasons why you cannot have anything that you set your mind to. "Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." -Albert Einstein .--N

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